Big Mama Said: If He brought you to it, He’ll carry you through it.

By: Terry Allen

Lucille “Big Mama” Allen wasn’t just our family matriarch—she was our divine compass. She led with scripture in one hand and wisdom in the other. Her kitchen was her pulpit, her life a masterclass in faith. When she spoke, you listened. When she prayed, things shifted. Her voice still lives in my soul—especially when the call to serve meets the reality of pain.

This month, I heard her say, “Baby, if God gave you the task, He’s already equipped you to finish it. Accept it. Complete it.”

And I did.

To God be the glory. While undergoing cancer treatment, moving slower, and suffering a dislocated shoulder from a Brother who hugged a little too strong, I still showed up for what I was called to do. But the hardest cross I bore wasn’t physical—it was spiritual. This month, I had to say goodbye to my son without being by his side. That grief is heavy. But God carried me through that valley too.

At City Men Cook, I stood in the gap for our men and families—not for the applause, but for the assignment. showcasing Black men in a positive light.

At Mental Health Sunday at SLUMC, I spoke about healing the “invisible che” while walking through my own.

At the Bowlathon, I laced up, showed up, and gave joy—even when energy was limited because I love the allyship with Cheryl Smith.
For Men’s Month at SLUMC, I stayed faithful, pouring into purpose and brotherhood.

I didn’t move fast, but I moved forward. I didn’t feel strong, but I stood. Every step, every smile, every seed planted—God made it possible. And Big Mama would’ve been proud.

This wasn’t about me—it was about a God who uses broken vessels to pour out full blessings. I accepted the assignment, completed it in faith, and left behind crumbs of hope for others to taste and see that the Lord is still good.

If you’re feeling tired, discouraged, or unsure—remember Big Mama’s words: “If He brought you to it, He’ll carry you through it.” Email; me at Terryallenpr@gmail.com and let us know what you have completed. Amen and Ashé.

Terry Allen is an NABJ award-winning Journalist, DEI expert, PR professional, and founder of the charity – Vice President at FocusPR, Founder of City Men Cook, and Dallas Chapter President of NBPRS.org